We went out to eat at a family-friendly salad bar tonight (Q. Cumbers for you locals) and I received my first breast feeding in public comment. A women across from us (only kind-of across from us... walkway between us, her chair was facing a different direction than mine) asked me, "Do you have a cover?"
At first, I couldn't hear her because, er, she wasn't that close and like I said, family-friendly place, not super quiet. Plus, I was sitting with two boys, a friend and Jacob, and I was on the far side of the table. Discretely nursing.
I gave her a blank stare and said, "No."
Her: "Didn't someone give you a cover?"
Me: "No. I'm not going to cover his face."
She returns to her table, and chair that's not even facing in my direction, and proceeds to finish her meal reading the newspaper.
Really? My nursing my six-week-old without *any* exposed flesh disturbed her that much that she had to say something? Really? I mean, come on! There were other women wearing tank tops with more on display than me!!
I am flabbergasted that this exchange actually took place. Jacob and I watched ABC's
"What Would You Do?"on public breast feeding and have been joking/talking about it lately. Because it seems so ludicrous to us. We must have willed it to happen to us!
Anyway, just had to share. I am still in disbelief. I totally support breast feeding but am not really a
I'm-going-to-nurse-my-baby-in-front-of-an-Applebee's-type mom, (aka the
Applebee's Nurse-In ) but STILL. I keep replaying the scene in my head and can't fall asleep. There are so many other things I'd like to say... Shoot.